hello pplz,
todays topic is a little late yes i know, but it took my quite a while to come up with a lucrative topic. so here it is... why oh why is it so hard for guys to shell out a little intimacy... i mean would it be so hard for a guy to hold you at night? or sit and have a real conversation with you? because in a way conversation is the best type of intimacy. i mean are women that much of an alien species that you can't have a theological conversation with? let me help you out guys here is what not to talk about when trying to have a conversation with your girlfriend:
1. religion, it never turns out well just agree to disagree
2. sports. because she either...
a. doesn't care
or b. wont like the same teams you do either way it a bad area to get into
3. you sexual pasts, lets just face it relationships have been ruined over this one
4. politics... enough said
things you should talk about, although some may seem offensive at first it really opens you up:
1. sex.... i mean you can't go wrong here, you both find out what the other likes and sex, if you ask me, is a very important part of a relationship, though not the only part.
2. you past relationships... okay your wondering whats the difference between this and sexual pasts? well sexual pasts can really get just plan old rude, no chick wants to know how much your ex girlfriend pleased you and no dude wants to know how much better you ex boyfriend can bang, then you sex life will turn into one huge competition. now talking about past relationships can help you get some insight on why them and that other person aren't together anymore and how much you shouldn't do the same shit.
3. life, your life his life, just plain old getting to know each others life i mean you don't have to put it all out there in the first conversation you gotta leave something for later.
4. love, see where you both stand on the subject. no not "do you love me" and "how fast will it take you to love me" but really down to how that other person feels about the idea of love, if they've ever been in love and what happened.
5. play 20 questions, its a really fun game to play with you Beau or Bettie. write down 20 questions that you want to know about the other person, no not serious questions that only leads to drama, but goofy questions, like "whats you favorite color" it will not only give you an insight on that person but it will totally let you two get to know each other in a cute way.
so i guess the moral is TALK TO EACH OTHER, it not like you going to die because you had a real conversation. and quick tip, if sex is all you have in a relationship it's not a real relationship and it just wont last.... eh i'm just saying...
PAPER GANGSTA-LADY GAGA